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Tips for relationship: Being in an open relationship

admin — Fri, 23 Oct 2009 16:52:21 +0000

Being in a relationship takes a lot to make both partners satisfied. It is so important that we know how to communicate in a proper way.

Are you a couple who’s considering opening up your relationship, but you have anxieties and feelings of jealousy?

The most important thing is that you think carefully about what you’re afraid of and then talk about it with your partner.
It makes no sense just saying: I feel jealous, not even knowing why.

You should be more clear and think carefully, what exactly are you afraid of.
We are all afraid about changes but fears and other feelings can change. And if they do, you need to be flexible about changing.

So if you are planing an open relationship:

Set up your arrangements and agreements

Think about it very carefully and talk to your partner about every doubt and wish

Relationship tips: What is the main thing to make a relationship work?

admin — Mon, 12 Oct 2009 15:23:48 +0000

How compatible are you and the person you are with? How would you know? Just because you like the same types of foods and pets does not mean that you can have a blissful, long-term relationship.

“We should know that 83% of divorces would not take place if couples asked each other the right questions.”

There are a lot of issues between partners and we just don’t know what to do to make things work better. The main reason for break ups and for arguing are very often because we don’t know how to communicate in a proper way.

Book and some tips for this main issues between couples should be a good start and usefull thing to help you improve a communication between you and your partner to make relationship last.

Writer of a book 1000 questions for couples is well known Michael Webb. (Appeared in Cosmopolitan, Oprah shows, Men’s health..)

So if you are interested in it you can find some more informations and help for you here:

Michael Webb: 1000 questions for couples

How to improve communication in a relationship?

admin — Wed, 23 Sep 2009 00:11:45 +0000

Good communication is one of the most important things in a relationships.
We should be more open to the prospect of the improving communication in relationships and be prepared to change our attitudes and way of speaking if this is a problem. When communication breaks down, so do many other aspects of a partnership. There are a lot of communication issues between partners.

So..Think about..

What things cause upsets between you and you partner?

Are you listening to each other?

How would you like to change communication with your partner?

There are some advices:

1. It is important to see things from partner’s point of view.

2. Never react in the heat of anger.

3. Listen carefully and try to be focused when other speaks.

4. Think before you say anything.

5. Try to use positive words and look for compromise.

6. Take your partner seriously.

We should know that the goal of good communication isn’t about winning the argument, but finding the best solution for problems.