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Tips for relationship: Best sex lasts 7 to 13 minutes

admin — Mon, 30 Nov 2009 13:00:06 +0000

Being in a relationships means sustain it in a different ways. One of the most important things for relationship to last is also good sex. Relationship between the partners can make better an “ideal sex”. The ideal time duration to enjoy best sex is 7 to 13 minutes.

According to sex experts the best sex (ideal sex) lasts for between seven and thirteen minutes and even a three minute quickie can be satisfying. The study concluded that intercourse lasting between three and seven minutes was ‘adequate’, but anything less was ‘too short’ and beyond 13 minutes was ‘too long’.

Cheating in relationships

admin — Tue, 27 Oct 2009 10:12:53 +0000

About cheating

Cheating is defined as an act of lying, deception and so on. It is creating an unfair advantage in one’s own interest.

Some time ago cheating had a simple definition, but nowadays it is more complexed and everybody has his/her own opinion, because we all have different standards. Before you want to try if grass really is greener on the other side, take a moment to think about WHAT are you doing and WHY are you doing this. It is the most important to know what cheating actually means.

We know two main types of affairs:

First is so called Romantic affair. Here are emotions the key. Both persons involved in this, feel like there is future for them.

The second on is Sexual affair where it is a purely sexual thing. It can all begin with innocent flirting and there are usually no real emotions involved.

Types of affairs

There are also some specific types of affairs:

- Conflict-avoidance affair: Those avoiders are ussualy nice people who are afraid to be anything but nice and have fear that conflict will lead to losing control.

- Intimacy-avoidance affair: Those couples are opposite of conflict avoiders. They are frightened of getting too close.

- Sexual addiction affair: Those people use sex to numb inner pain and emptiness.

- Split –self affair: Both persons in a relationship have needs to take care for others so their affairs are more serious and long-term. They are often deciding between marriage and affair partner.

- Exit affair: This is often called »equal opportunity« affair. Person is cheating to leave the marriage.

Reasons for cheating

Not all relationships or marriages fail for the same reason. An affair is usually not the couse of a broken relationship , but a result of it. After some time we get tired of each other, but we should figure out if cheating really is the best solution for our problems. After passion of new romance has died down, people discover that it doesn’t make difference than before and they find out that this was a big mistake. Here are some reasons for cheating: Revenge, monotonous/not enough sex, for better self-esteem, losing »connection« with partner, finding thing that people feel they’ve lost with their partner, lack of/bad communication…

Effects of cheating

Once affair has been discovered, the effects continue for a long time. Sometimes partners stay together, but cheating couse a vast array of feelings, questions and problems to arise in a relationship. In this case you have to be prepared for a hard work to sustain what you have with a loving person and trying to get over this. Being in a relationship means sustain it everytime . It’s delicate situation, but if you want this, you can do it!

Tips for relationship: Being in an open relationship

admin — Fri, 23 Oct 2009 16:52:21 +0000

Being in a relationship takes a lot to make both partners satisfied. It is so important that we know how to communicate in a proper way.

Are you a couple who’s considering opening up your relationship, but you have anxieties and feelings of jealousy?

The most important thing is that you think carefully about what you’re afraid of and then talk about it with your partner.
It makes no sense just saying: I feel jealous, not even knowing why.

You should be more clear and think carefully, what exactly are you afraid of.
We are all afraid about changes but fears and other feelings can change. And if they do, you need to be flexible about changing.

So if you are planing an open relationship:

Set up your arrangements and agreements

Think about it very carefully and talk to your partner about every doubt and wish

What men want from relationship?

admin — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 14:15:17 +0000

Do you want to have a power like those women who seem to know exactly what men want from them? Have you ever wondered why they always have good-looking guys chasing after them?

Would you like to turn into one of those women? Then you must read this.

It is so important that you are self-confident and that you know how to take care for yourself. Maybe you won’t believe, but men really know the difference in an airbrushed photo of a model and a real woman, and they can appreciate your body just as it is. So show him that you are confident with your body too. What men really want is that women challenges them emotionally and intellectually.

Relationship tips: What is the main thing to make a relationship work?

admin — Mon, 12 Oct 2009 15:23:48 +0000

How compatible are you and the person you are with? How would you know? Just because you like the same types of foods and pets does not mean that you can have a blissful, long-term relationship.

“We should know that 83% of divorces would not take place if couples asked each other the right questions.”

There are a lot of issues between partners and we just don’t know what to do to make things work better. The main reason for break ups and for arguing are very often because we don’t know how to communicate in a proper way.

Book and some tips for this main issues between couples should be a good start and usefull thing to help you improve a communication between you and your partner to make relationship last.

Writer of a book 1000 questions for couples is well known Michael Webb. (Appeared in Cosmopolitan, Oprah shows, Men’s health..)

So if you are interested in it you can find some more informations and help for you here:

Michael Webb: 1000 questions for couples